my wife doesn't care when i'm sickmy wife doesn't care when i'm sick

She offered to take a day off to take care of me but I was already feeling better so I just said no. I used to do the same thing. (again, fear). Now I'm going to get sick! My husband responded to me that if I went on medical leave I would have to stop seeing my doctor because he wouldn't pay for it anymore. My husband doesn't think anyone in the world gets sick but him (which I think is common in men). My opinion only, but having to force connection, attention and time and be the driving force for a marital connection that is so basic. well, that seems hollow to me also. Talk to her and use 'I need" statements. WebBy sick, I mean a minor cold. Terms. Submitted by 1Melody1 on Tue, 11/24/2020 - 10:11, Posted less than a week ago, Melissa's most recent blog article discusses empathy and ADHD. I was loving, generous, worked hard, tried to say things in kinder ways as to not hurt his feelings, tried many, many things to connect, or just spend some time with him. Right now I'm back at the house trying to get some stuff in order. Imagine that. The whole thing is just very, very HARD. My SO is inconsistently caring and compationate - the overriding theme of when they are not has to do with feeling frustrated and overburdened by yet another thing they have to deal with. It CHANGED ME, and I'm not who I used to be. When I'm sick, yes. If I am not in his presence at the moment, I am not on his mind. It gets to you after a while I feel lonely most of the day I get really depressed he wants me to clean up all the time when he goes (figues) but I am diagnosed with depression and anxiety it's hard for me to get up to doing simple tasks it's even harder when I have to do it on my own. Until you are burnt out, and I finally notice something is wrong. I am a romantic to this day. Even worse when these DisneyDaddys, lol are looking for a life partner, the first thing that they rub on your face is the: my kids come first b.s. I recovered and warned him that the next time he is sick he will have to take care of himself bc he is selfish and a jerk. No expression. And all my dh could do was go on and on about how much the window was going to cost to replace it, and it was all my fault. You only get 1 life and your life matters, period. After a month of separation, I was so happy that I started packing to go back. There are times I still wonder how our husbands can continue to deny who they are, and why so MANY people, have difficulty with them. Good point. I WISH I was kidding. How does someone even DO that? is already like this, it will only get worse. His mother died from Alzhiemer's, but was bi-polar and whatever else. There absolutely is an empathy and emotional disconnect which fuels this, and without that empathy the rest of the ADHD partner's response is heavily coloured. I cam home ( after working out for an hour feeling worse ) and told my mom and she took my temperature and it was like 104 degrees!! If she's sick, and the kids need something, she's on her own. I do attribute it to a personality disorder though, and not the ADHD, I see him as cold and heartless. It's the thought that matters <3. Should also consider the stress my wife is dealing with at work. I'm curious to see a female's perspective on this, especially someone who has been married to see if this holds true. You dont care about my illness. His sister died from alcoholism about 8 years ago, she was only 51. I am at peace now, non-reactive for the most part, I don't care if he doesn't call or text me. And of course, my fave from Walter Mitty movie "Beautiful things don't ask for attention. Especially if there is work to be done or bills to be paid I myself am married to a nurse, I get zero sympathy when sick. My wife wants to be left alone, and I mean ALONE. So, does he want me around because he's afraid he's dying? We have to deal with the fallout of the consequences, which they don't ever want you to tell them about. I decided then to leave. Not doing anything about it will make you resentful. If you live together, your partner may want to sleep in their own bed with you. I take and I take, and then I take some more. Hearing him speak kindly of other folks, being gentler in his speech, since he KNOWS how unkind the world can be. It wasnt until recently that I found an outlet for all of this junk in my head. She was probably raised in a household without empathy for sick people. Pleasure. He will do things like say "You are not sick!!" Everyone, strangers and those that love and tolerate him see an issue. What symptoms first occurred in I'll talk to my wife when she gets home. It dramatically affected my relationship for the worse. Isn't THAT ironic? He did - but was very angry and mean about it. I was trying to do something simple. I didn't nag on him, or hate him, or unkind. Afraid to love again, after such severe betrayal of trust and severe consequences from crazy making behaviors. To us I should say. Your husband is a narcissist, sorry to say. This is daunting to say the least. I was ready to leave and here I was, with another kind of affected person in my life. 2022 Mighty Proud Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. It was my truck. Life goes on around us when we are sick. He love(s) the one he is with..as in.."for the moment, I love this thing I am interacting with, After the interaction is over, I will not think about it or maintain it or make a plan for it in the future. My husband has a 'man cold' right now. Devoid of anything? My cough doesnt produce anything other than an exsmokers clean up. Submitted by PoisonIvy on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 15:38. Female here sick and tired of whiny twats like you. She was diagnosed with a mood disorder and anxiety in 2008. Second, gently encourage him to connect. What does it take to stop running into these types of people? 9. It appears you entered an invalid email. Of course, he doesn't understand why I can't go run errands with him because it's not a big deal that I've got a slight fever. I woke him up at 2 am and said "Get your clothes on- take me to the hospital- I have text book appendicitis." Then, why the * are they looking for a life partner in the first place?. If your betta lives in an unfiltered setup youll need to completely change his water and clean his tank weekly. In the letter I explained that he needed to get help and I was running to save myself. Anyway. I told him I am sick but he tells me to get rest and took off to entertain himself. Friday afternoon he gets home from work and goes to give me a kiss and I tell him that he shouldn't kiss me because I'm getting a scratchy throat and most likely a cold and his response isn't one of sympathy, instead it's "Greeeeeeat! OP, assuming you guys have been married for a long time, possibly for more than five years and your work is what gets u sick and hurt regularly, I'm guessing she was not always like this. Yeah, he's not that thoughtful. I like what Melissa said earlier, about becoming the person our husbands fell in love with. He refused to tend to me as I was going into shock. The unfinished projects and dreams. He is generous to others but asks me when I can pay him back. (And he sees this as a good thing)half done, with walls half painted. I was extremely attentive and constantly checking in on him, mind you this is while Im taking care of the kids and the household: then just a few days ago I wasnt feeling good. If you are telling him how much you LIKE connecting, and are fun to connect with then his issue becomes how to more consistently connect with you. Although Melissa's suggestions have some merit for a couple where there is active treatment adherence, I don't have much hope of change in my relationship with someone who never gives a thought to anyone else but himself. Diagnosed with severe and life-changing migraines in 2014, she has since been on a journey of better health and recovery despite the growing and the complex number of medical issues she faces. I wanted to hope that with me gone, and only him in the house, he would get to live the way he "wanted". Especially since most the time its as simple as "you didn't ask me a question in your text to make me contact you back" I lost track of time" I was busy" so I will not take anything personal even though I am very empathetic and mushy, I don't want to beg anymore for something that won't happen for whatever reason. I actually yelled at him, told him how selfish he is. Once shes mad, the first step to resolving it is by me apologizing. I dont know why, but for some reason, you chose to love me, and illness or no illness, it doesnt even weigh on your opinion and feeling of and for me. Whenever I am sick, all I get from my husband is sorry. He just gets on his computer. Does she get sick often?Wondering how sympathy for each other is usually when one of you is sick. Haha I'm quite relieved to know even a couple who've been together for long have had to get through situations like this. And now that I have, I have a new perspective. A perfect opportunity to "prove" himself right ~ WRONG! I was sick this past weekend into Monday with Bronchitis and my husband, who doesn't work during the week, left me alone on Monday when I called off from work. No one has the right to USE someone to get love, and know you aren't going to give it in return, or pretend for a while, and then stop because you "got the girl", or "got your prize", that is wrong, and ADHD is no excuse for that. Nearly 17% were estranged from a member of their immediate family. with love respect and truth! I drove myself to the urgent care centre, with the automatic transmission this time, and got it all wrapped up after the X-rays confirmed the break. I would like to see him live with this and all the pain and cognitive dysfunction it causes. Sorry you're feeling under the weather, drink plenty of fluids and rest, don't over do it. And, yes, I am 100% sure it's not all ADHD. I am not an illness. Press J to jump to the feed. I was treated for cancer a few years ago & this really threw things into sharp relief. Acknowledge the wrongdoing. Describe what you did, and why it was wrong.Promise not to do it again. Mean it.Ask for forgiveness. Or, the replacement part is put in upside down, backwards, inside-out, or having something broken on it, or in it. ExpectingH to become someone he cannot/will not be is futile. And for this, I am truly, deeply sorry. I told her that as long as I took it slow, I would be OK. My husband didn't offer to help, he just stood there, and I could hear the wheels turning in his head. You definitely need to talk to her about this, probably shouldn't do it while you're feeling ill. OMG. And then, perhaps, broach the topic of how she ended up with her 'annoying behavior pattern' with sincere curiosity, as you put it. I know some have stated this, others have said the opposite. "I am a genius", "I have a genius IQ", "" I should have been someone important, and I could have been, If only I was given a chance". Bring her gatorade, soup, crackers, etc. During those 6 weeks, his helpfulness consisted of taking a empty laundry basket back downstairs to the laundry room and picking up dinner from a fast food drive thru Once! When my husband found out he was angry and said " I can't justify spending that kind of money. My wife wants to be left alone all I want is take care of her just be there for her to help her I don't understand when I'm sick I love for her to take care of me maybe just hold my hand any one can help me, After 22 years of marriage , I've learned this the hard way and am done once our oldest has graduated high school. Thankfully, our two children were happy to help me. My husband never realized what was happening right under his nose. Set up a way for it to not be inconsistent. Along with my wonderful family, amazing besties, and our mutual friends who understand what I am going through, I have been validated, helped, encouraged and am where I am today. I will always do my best but not at the price of my sanity.". My husband's reaction? registered trademarks of Ziff Davis Canada, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without All 3 of her children had severe issues, which she blamed on them. We are at retirement age, but will never GET to retire. Out of character. That is my story for anyone that can benefit from it. Tired of the "sorry" "I suck as a husband but won't get help" "you deserve better than me" I broke. They were on their lunch break at the time, and went back to work - taking the automatic transmission car and leaving me with the manual. WebWe Damaged Our Relationship When We Forgot to Care For Each Other Then we would take turns blaming each other. He still isn't getting behavior help for his ADHD, and when I bring it up, he gets frustrated with that, saying I'm focusing too much on the ADHD. Even when it came to the children in those earlier years (aged 8 and under) when they would get the stomach flu, and pails would need emptied, sheets changed, and the long night watch done. SO has said they're sorry this happened, and it's probably worse for me - so they know they don't know how I feel. Otherwise I think you need to stop acting like a child when sick. She was in her second semester of college and was busy with school and work. I mis calculated the drop, my crutches went out from under me, and I fell, landing flat on my back on thecement patio, hard. Been married 13+ yrs and anytime I am sick, according to him I act like I am dying. "The unexpected" threatens their sense of fragile balance. But don't be the version of youthat is currentlyin his face. Its me, me and my illness, that dominate our life. Thanks a lot!" My mom used to go hands on care for me when I get sick growing up. It tends to be E>S in females, and S>E in males, and S>E in ADHD regardless of gender. Don't get me wrong. Reach out in an inviting way. But that was a lot of days for him to be unable to make any time for you. He told I just had the flu and went to bed. This is a personality disorder. Hi. No hugs, kisses, attention, praise, cuddling just for cuddlings sake. My husband had the worst tantrum in front of a third person. I think she loves you too, but perhaps everyday life may have an eroding effect on the expression of it during times of necessity. If he is in a tank with filtration, you need to change about 20-30% of his water weekly. When I had the flu really bad my kids did too and I still had to take care of everybody. Submitted by thparkle on Tue, 03/20/2018 - 11:36. Run!!! (Daddy issues?). I didn't get medical help until nearly 12 hours later. (I'm not sure if he came over on the Friday night from 9 pm to 8 am.). Some otc antacids helped. Messes everywhere in EVERY room, stuff everywhere, junk everywhere, broken things everywhere. I never get any sympathy from him, but my children hug me, draw me upside down rainbows because I am in pain and can't smile, and try to help me. Do I wish that were not the case? My SO is not yet undergoing any kind of treatment. So I don't ask for anything beyond desperate needs. (Dirt, dust, cob webs, grease, filth, trash, broken stuff, computer junk, all over) Then there is the paperwork all over the place and our finances to get through. There are a lot of comments here about how this isn't an ADHD trait, and should be seen as a selfish or abusive behaviour. I left work early and took them to hospital, tended them there, brought them home and generally took care of as much as I could to keep them comfortable and on the way to mending throughout. out of the basement and towards you) and that ADHD symptoms are poorly managed. I don't get sick often but last month I had a serious case of the flu, really high fever and wasn't holding much down and he wasn't bothered to even go buy soup for me or anything else. All I can say is wow. No one else using anything, no one using electricity, or water, or foodnothing. Anyway, I digress. And I can tell you one thing without a doubt or question in my mind? I was still in therapy and my therapist, who is a mutual friend and took me on pro-bono, helped me so much to rebuild my esteem, stop being co-dependent. I guess it could be that old saying of, 'Whatever you fear you create". Submitted by vabeachgal on Sat, 04/15/2017 - 18:15. ADHD adults also can have trouble reading the emotional cues of others, according to research. He is Extremely self centered, has No Empathy or Sympathy for anyone except himself. I just got back from a trip and most likely caught a cold from someone on the plane ride home. Hed get one color half done, then start on a new color somewhere else. If the ADHD'er is unwilling to get help then really it's not fair for the other person to be the only one to want to actively work at it. Effective at making you get better because it was boring as shit. Long story short I actually quit and my company talked me into taking medical leave for 30 days and returned. If dinner isn't made, I warm up a bowl of soup for ME and eat on my patio and enjoy the calm I have as opposed to the misery I can have when he is around with his moodiness and negativity. This is the response of a person who lives in the present. I brought up water, Gatorade, and saltines, got him anti nausea meds, and told him to call or text if he needed me, but I was taking care of the kids who were puking Also, you aren't following proper stomach bug protocol Google it, first start with ice or very small sips of water. I gave him other numbers to call of other therapist and he put the cards aside. Submitted by Resentful on Fri, 03/16/2018 - 09:54. All part of marriage, I guess. Our daughter just had surgery overseas. Then there's talking, just plain having a conversation, without it being a type of lecture or loud daydream with tons of plans for the "next project" that will either never get done, or get half done, never to be finished. Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 09:54. Someone who at times would look at me and just smile, (as if we shared a special secret), with eyes that showed gentleness, patience and strength, but with a reverent humility. Because you are doing it and should own your behavior. Sign #8: He is fine with you hanging around other men. So, for me, this could be more mental illness that just hasn't been diagnosed yet, and he is too afraid to find out anything else other than the "acceptable" ADHD. But I havent been acting like it. His answer was absolutely not. He wrote me a letter saying how he fell in love in college, and she left him, and he didn't want to feel "that hurt" again, so he basically shut "that part" of himself down, so that he wouldn't FEEL that. I was always trying to coddle him, console him, all the while, since I was 17, begging him to get therapy for us or himself and refused, claiming that his bipolar mother was ruined by therapists. I sit on the couch and tell him I've got a fever. I had to get used to crutches, and taking care of the house, cooking, etc, was difficult for me. He came home from work at 9pm and I said I was throwing up and had terrible stomach cramps etc. Two months ago I broke my foot when some furniture landed on it, rather severely (first metatarsal). I will keep that in mind. That's not even in my nature.". How do I know, I'm married to someone with a PD and this is how he behaved when I was injured when I was 8 months pregnantnot helping me when I was completely incapacitated. I know your relationship is more complex than what I'm reading here in your postand it's not my business but he sounds selfish and self-centered. Newly wed so some things are quite new. My job is a blessing to me though. He stormed up to me, angrily, shouting WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING? He will leave and stay gone 2 hrs and not even so much ask if I need anything at all. It took me 27 years to stop being jealous when he treated other women better than me and hyperfocused on gadgets and not me. They are more important than you are. 3. We have elementary aged children and he works at a demanding job. I think so. But in the end, that doesn't matter either. I grew up in a house where you were basically quarantined when sick. Some people wait until the water is visibly murky before performing maintenance on the tank. I want to say Thank you for sharing your story. Being in a constantly defensive state (as are the chronic blamers of the world) means ADHD adults can become really good at detachingand awful at attaching. Get out now and look for greener pastured. Blank. WebIt is not a crime to not care for a spouse when they are sick. Your book sits on my husband's night stand. But it was terrible to watch my child suffer like that. But if I need or expect something maybe not so much because it wont register as now/love but as someone upset whether the upsetedness is valid or not. I was hospitalized for 3 days after that since I was infected by the local food and I was pregnant. You must have JavaScript enabled to use this form. Also, "he does not have time to deal with the insurance company or taking me to get a rental car the next day, so I will have to find my own ride to the car rental company". Perhaps he would consider reading the free treatment e-book (look in the treatment guide for it) and also consider adding some 'attend time' to his schedule. You should probably be checked out by a doctor. This means you may think it's obvious when you need a hug or some connection, but they may not 'see' it. But I truly think my husband is being a pussy sometimes. It's not just the ADHD, but he won't go get a full evaluation. The former provides you both with a structure that can work (does for many couples.) I drink a gulp of beer and a stoke of cigar and really feel love..for that moment. Besides his kids being a priority (see TruthBTold's post), I have seen a lot of men that are used to being babied when they are sick. It seems to b She used to tell me, (when speaking of my husband), "I liked him, he never BOTHERED ME", and would praise him for leaving her alone, unlike her other children who " needed" her, as children DO. #1. I haven't been yelled at once while expressing myself. With my dh, he doesn't react well to any kind of situation when his filters are down (and always always at home) -- there was that time when I fell against a window in a freak accident -- breaking my humeris and dislocating my shoulder on the radiator at the same time. WHYDID YOU ASK ME TO MARRY YOU, and tell me you loved me and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together? However Ive come to the realization that hes not the same as me. The reception was held at a house, in he back yard. 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